Monday, October 7, 2013

Harry Potter Surprise Party (Part 1)

A few weeks ago we took a quick little weekend trip
to surprise my sister for her 18th birthday!


We flew out the morning of her birthday
& got to their house around lunchtime.
After eating a quick lunch we laid all the decorations out
so that we could try to figure out where to begin.
Seeing piles of everything there in front of us & knowing that we only had a few hours
to turn the entire house into Hogwarts was a little overwhelming.
So where did we begin?

We turned each of the bedrooms into the four house common rooms by decorating with whatever we could find (misc blankets, tablecloths, curtains, & pillows from thrift shops, and even towels or whatever we could find around the house) that coordinated with the Hogwarts house colors on the beds & throughout each room.
I didn't get pictures of any of the common rooms,
but if for whatever reason you aren't familiar with Harry Potter, here are the house colors:
Scarlet & Gold for Gryffindor
Blue & Bronze for Ravenclaw
Yellow & Black for Hufflepuff
and of course,
Emerald Green & Silver (we also threw in some black) for Slytherin.

We had Hubby watching the kidlets and cutting out potion labels & chocolate frog boxes,
since he knew nothing about Harry Potter & was probably the least excited about the party's theme.
He hadn't read any of the books or seen any of the movies, & had no intentions of ever doing so.
But let's get back to the party set-up.
We'll discuss Hubby's dislike for Harry Potter later...

My other sister Abby came home from school & got right to helping us!
She worked on finishing up the Hogwarts acceptance letter,
which was undoubtedly the most important part of the entire party
for without that letter,
her dreams would not come true.
You see, she had been waiting for this letter her entire life.
Well, ever since she was 11...
It turns out they had sent it with the Weasley's owl Errol
(don't ask me why they sent it with him),
but he lost it along the way.
He flew around trying to find it again
but due to his extremely poor eyesight it took him 7 years.
Better late than never, right?

We did a little rearranging of furniture in the living room & dining room to turn it into the Great Hall,
where we would later have our feast.
My mom bought some house banners online that we hung up along the wall.
We had also intended on hanging floating candles,
but naturally ran out of time.
I guess that's what happens when you attempt to turn an entire house into Hogwarts
with less than enough time to do it.

Keeping her away turned out to be kinda interesting...
She's a senior in high school,
& she doesn't have very many classes that require her to be at school.
She takes a lot of online college courses that are doubling as some of her high school credits as well.
Fridays are one of her short days,
so we had to figure out how to keep her away from the house.
She had been wanting to go to work with Dad for a while,
so we thought she could just hang out with him from lunch on.
They had a lunch date, then went back to his office until he was done with work.
We still needed more time so it worked out perfectly that there was a football game.
My dad dropped her off at the game, then came home to help.
McCall texted Abby asking if she was coming to the game,
& called when she didn't get a response.
We had to be completely silent since she didn't know we were there.
Since keeping the kids quiet was quite the task,
we sent her upstairs with the phone to come up with a reason why she couldn't come.
A little while later,
she called the house saying the game was almost over,
& asked for a ride home.
We were far from ready and tried to think of more ways to stall her.
Then Dad got a text saying something like this:
'Just kidding, it's only the end of 3rd quarter'.
Really, McCall?
Really?
Was that mini heart attack necessary?
Did she know something was up?
We knew we didn't have much time left
so we hurried as fast as we could,
Abby planted the acceptance letter in the mailbox,
& we were still running all over the place trying to finish
when she called saying the game really was over this time.

Mom & Abby stayed home to finish getting things ready
while Dad dropped our little family off
with our Harry Potter glasses & robes
at a park only a few blocks away from the house.
We had to wait anxiously & patiently
while Dad headed to the high school to pick up McCall,
then to Walgreens to get a new SD card so that we could record her reaction,
then back home so she could get her acceptance letter
& go to Diagon Alley where she would get her wand, owl, books, & school supplies.
Finally everyone would pile up in the Hogwarts Express to come get us at the park.

So there we waited.
& so shall you...

Part 2
Part 3

xoxo
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Sunday, October 6, 2013

LDS General Conference - Sunday Words of Wisdom (Oct 2013)

If you missed yesterday's post,
you missed a bunch of motivating & inspiring quotes.
It was basically a recap of some of my favorite talks
from the Saturday morning & afternoon sessions of General Conference
of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.
You should definitely check it out!


Today I'll be sharing my favorite highlights from
the Sunday morning & afternoon sessions of conference.
Again, keep in mind these are my hurried notes & they are not all word for word...

Heavenly Father has perfect foresight.
He knows each of us, & He knows our future.
- President Henry B. Eyring

I gave him to you because I knew you could & would love him,
no matter what he did.
(referring to a grandmother with a grandson in prison, but could easily relate to many of us)
- President Henry B. Eyring

There is joy guaranteed for the faithful.
- President Henry B. Eyring

We are responsible to be compassionate, charitable, & loving toward all men.
We are also to be respectful of the religious beliefs of all people.
- Elder Dallin H. Oaks

Have courage & face your fears with dignity.
- Elder Dallin H. Oaks

We are here on Earth to run the race, pass the obstacles, & get to the finish line
with the stamina of our faith & testimony.
- Elder Richard J. Maynes

Satan will try to use our memory of previous guilt to lure us back into his influence.
We need to protect ourselves & avoid his enticements.
- Elder Richard G. Scott

The Lord sees weaknesses differently than He does rebellion.
Unrepentant rebellion will bring punishment,
but when the Lord speaks of weaknesses, it is always with mercy.
- Elder Richard G. Scott

Fill your life with service to others.
- Elder Richard G. Scott

Shall I falter, or shall I finish?
- President Thomas S. Monson

Never dwell on what you're lacking.
Focus on the blessings & be grateful.
- President Thomas S. Monson

Good timber does not grow with ease;
The stronger the wind, the stronger the trees.
(excerpt of poem by Douglas Malloch)
- President Thomas S Monson

How we preserve time for family is one of the most significant issues we face in most cultures.
Let us be at the forefront in protecting time for family.
Make any necessary sacrifices to protect our own family & the rising generation.
- Elder Quentin L. Cook

We are liberated by the love, grace, & atoning sacrifice of our Savior.
- Elder Quentin L. Cook

A teacher is also a student.
- Brother David M. McConkie

To stay ahead of the storms that come our way,
Don't forget to look up.
- Elder Adrián Ochoa

Rather than solve our problems Himself,
the Lord wants us to develop faith that will help us rely on Him in solving our problems & trust Him.
- Elder Terence M. Vinson

Our Savior wants us to really love Him to the point that we want to align our will with His.
- Elder Terence M. Vinson

You are never too young to learn, & never too old to change.
- Elder Russell M. Nelson

Are we not all children of God?
- Elder Russell M. Nelson

We should love God more than even our Earthly parents,
and we should love our neighbors as our brothers & sisters.
- Elder Russell M. Nelson

How you use your body affects your spirit.
How will you choose to care for & use your body?
What spiritual attributes will you choose to develop?
- Elder Russell M. Nelson

Like many great prophets of old,
you were chosen before you were born.
- Elder Russell M. Nelson

Freedom from self-slavery is true liberation.
- Elder Russell M. Nelson

Sin, even if legalized by man, is still sin in the eyes of God.
We cannot change His doctrine.
It is not ours to change.
- Elder Russell M. Nelson

Each day is a day of decision, & our decisions determine our destiny.
- Elder Russell M. Nelson

May your homes be filled with love and courtesy, & with the spirit of the Lord.
- President Thomas S. Monson

May we show increased kindness to one another.
- President Thomas S. Monson

May heaven's blessing be with you.
- President Thomas S. Monson

So there you have it...
My favorite highlights from today's conference talks.

The Mormon religion seems to often be misunderstood & misinterpreted.
So if you have any questions,
feel free to ask me!
I promise I won't try to convert you.
I will, however, give you honest answers
so that you may better understand our religion.
Email me at
lifeisfantasmic {at} hotmail {dot} com

Like yesterday,
Since I didn't share everything,
I encourage you to listen to or read the other wonderful words spoken today.
When the talks are available to read, I'll provide the links below...

Sunday morning
To My Grandchildren by Henry B. Eyring
No Other Gods by Dallin H. Oaks
Be Ye Converted by Bonnie Oscarson
The Strength to Endure by Richard J. Maynes
Personal Strength through the Atonement of Jesus Christ by Richard G. Scott
"I Will Not Fail Thee, nor Forsake Thee" by President Thomas S. Monson

Sunday afternoon
Lamentations of Jeremiah: Beware of Bondage by Quentin L. Cook
Power in the Priesthood by Neil L. Andersen
Teaching with the Power and Authority of God by David M. McConkie
Continually Holding Fast by Kevin S. Hamilton
Look Up by Adrián Ochoa
Drawing Closer to God by Terence M. Vinson
Decisions for Eternity by Russell M. Nelson
Till We Meet Again by President Thomas S. Monson

xoxo
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Saturday, October 5, 2013

LDS General Conference - Saturday Words of Wisdom (Oct 2013)

This weekend is the 183rd Semiannual General Conference
Prepare for some inspiring quotes...


Conference weekend:
Two days of quality family time.
Two days of staying home & lounging around in our pajamas watching tv.
Two days of eating Pull-A-Part Bread & Breakfast Casserole for brunch.
Two days of simultaneous conference bingo w/ the kids & note taking.
Two days of uplifting & motivational talks given by our living prophet & his apostles.
Two days of talks given by other church leaders who have amazing faith in God.
Two days of relaxation, revelation, & inspiration.
The spirit felt is wonderful.
I love it.

I always take notes during each of the talks,
then I go back & highlight my favorite messages.
Today I'm going to share some of my favorite highlights
from the Saturday morning & afternoon sessions of conference.
Keep in mind these are my hurried notes & they are not all word for word...

What is said at conference is not as important as what you hear & what you feel.
- Elder Robert D. Hales

The Lord will tell you what He wants you to do if you will listen.
- Elder Robert D. Hales

We gather to hear the words of the Lord, & we return to our homes to live them.
- Elder Robert D. Hales

How to become meek:
1. Improve ourselves day by day. Try a little harder to do a little better each day.
2. Learn to control our temper, be patient, & avoid contention.
3. Be humble. The humble are teachable & meek.
Meekness is vital to become more Christlike.
- Elder Ulisses Soares

Look ahead and believe.
- Elder Edward Dube

Significant yet subtle blessings come from paying tithing.
- Elder David A. Bednar

One of the blessings of tithing is finding gratitude for what we have & what the Lord has given us.
A grateful person is rich in contentment.
- Elder David A. Bednar

The blessings that come from paying tithing prove that you can do more with less.
- Elder David A. Bednar

Read the scriptures. Peace & inspiration will come. Solutions will follow.
- President Boyd K. Packer

A woman's moral influence is nowhere more powerfully felt than in the home.
Bring up your children in light & truth. Teach them to pray often.
- Elder D. Todd Christofferson

Small & simple things can touch hearts.
- Elder Arnulfo Valenzuela

Let us reach out to others with faith & love.
- Elder Arnulfo Valenzuela

Fatigue is the common enemy of us all.
So slow down, rest up, replenish, & refill.
- Elder Jeffrey R. Holland

Don't assume you can fix everything, but fix what you can.
- Elder Jeffrey R. Holland

Be merciful, non-judgmental, kind.
Have faith, hold fast to hope, & don't give up.
- Elder Jeffrey R. Holland

Just be positive & those around you will feel your love.
- Elder M. Russell Ballard

It is impossible to fail when we do our best & are on the Lord's errand.
- Elder M. Russell Ballard

Why would anyone join such a church?
1. This church was restored in our day by Jesus Christ himself.
2. The church provides opportunities for doing good.
3. Walking the path of discipleship leads to promised blessings.
If the gospel is so wonderful, why would anyone leave?
1. Some are offended.
2. Some lose their way due to temptation.
3. Some disagree on certain beliefs.
4. There are many reasons.
Whatever the reason, we respect their right to worship according to the dictates of their own conscience.
- President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

The church would only be perfect if it were run by perfect humans.
He works through us, his imperfect children, & imperfect people make mistakes.
If you expect to find perfect people here in the church you will be disappointed.
- President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

We must never allow doubt to hold us prisoner.
Doubt your doubts before you doubt your faith.
- President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

We need your unique perspective.
- President Dieter F. Uchtdorf

and those were just the highlights...
Can you imagine how long this post would be if I typed up all of my notes for all of my favorite talks?
Yeah, that could get kind of crazy.
Since I didn't write everything down,
I encourage you to listen to or read the other wonderful words that were spoken today.
When the talks are available to read, I'll provide links below...

Saturday morning:
Welcome to Conference by President Thomas S. Monson
Be Meek & Lowly of Heart by Ulisses Soares
Do We Know What We Have? by Carole M. Stephens
Look Ahead & Believe by Edward Dube
The Windows of Heaven by David A. Bednar
Come, Join with Us by Dieter F. Uchtdorf

Saturday afternoon:
The Moral Force of Women by D. Todd Christofferson
Hastening the Lord's Game Plan! by S. Gifford Nielsen
Small & Simple Things by Arnfulo Valenzuela
Wilt Thou Be Made Whole? by Timothy J. Dyches
Like a Broken Vessel by Jeffrey R. Holland
Put Your Trust in the Lord by M. Russell Ballard

xoxo
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Friday, October 4, 2013

MOPS: Advice from experienced moms


Yesterday at MOPS we had a mentor mom panel.
We got to learn more about 6 wonderful ladies that have been there & done that with the whole parenting thing.
They answered a bunch of anonymous questions that we had come up with ahead of time.
Most questions were about parenting or marital issues,
they touched a bit on how to deal with difficult in-laws,
and how to cope when you're super stressed & your family lives far away...
Although I didn't think to write the questions down
(and I wish I would have),
I took notes on the advice that I found most helpful or profound.

Here's what I learned from the pros:
Pray often.
Pray for your husband.
Pray for your children.
Pray for their future & for their future husbands.

Stop worrying about cleaning your house today & just play.
You'll truly regret it if you don't.

Don't beat yourself up about things you didn't do this week,
there's always next week.

Write yourself encouraging notes.

Encourage other moms.

When you feel like your husband isn't spending enough time with you or your family
ask him, 'What memories do you want our kids to have about their Dad?'
'What memories do you want me to have about us 10, 20, or 50 years from now?'
Ask these things or address issues when things are going well & you are at your best
rather than when you are upset or frustrated.

Make a gratitude list.
Write about things you are thankful for that relate to your husband
and the work he does for you & your family.

Child swap with other moms for relief

Put God first.
Put your marriage second.
Find time for dates & intimacy.
Keep that spark alive.

Show your children that you love your husband.
Don't be afraid to hug, kiss, & hold hands in public.
Keep it PG though...

The only control you truly have is over yourself.
You have complete control over the way you live your life
and the way you handle things you're faced with.
Whether it be a day-to-day or life changing situation
be a good example
& although you can't control your family or others you associate with,
you can influence them for the better.

There is power in using the words "You're right."
If you seem to be having disagreements with your spouse or in-laws,
find something that they're right about,
and use those words to let them know you agree.

Try to look at things through your in-law's eyes if you don't really get along.
They were raised differently than you & have a reason for their differing opinions on things.
If you want to raise your children differently than they raised theirs, that's okay.
You married their son & already know that they raised a winner,
but it's ultimately up to you and your spouse to choose how you raise your family.

Create networks in your community for support, especially if you don't have family nearby.
There are always plenty of experienced moms that would love to "adopt" you & help you out.

So those were the highlights of advice that the mentor moms gave yesterday at MOPS...
Hopefully you can apply that wonderful advice to your life
or pass it along to other moms that may need it!

I think I might make MOPS highlights a regular thing here on the blog.
Whatcha think?
xoxo
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Thursday, October 3, 2013

MOPS

When we moved,
we were blessed to move to a wonderful neighborhood with wonderful neighbors.
Seriously... Everyone I have met here has been super friendly.
When talking with my next door neighbor/friend one day,
she asked me if I had ever been in a MOPS group.

photo credit: MOPS.org

I had never even heard of it.
She explained that MOPS stands for 'mothers of preschoolers'.
Twice a month, we meet at a local church for a couple hours.
What happens next is 100% awesome.
You drop the kidlets (MOPPETS) off in age appropriate rooms (yes, infants too)
where they get to play with other kids their age under the supervision of well-trusted volunteers.
Then you get to enjoy the company of other mothers & mentor-moms
while eating a warm homemade breakfast without worrying about...
your kids eating off your plate
while you change a stinky diaper,
refill sippy cups,
give the kids seconds since they're still hungry,
& finally get to take your first (cold/soggy) bite 30 minutes later.
Seriously though...
MOPS mornings are the best breakfasts I've had in a looong time!
So from what I've gathered my first two times going...
you enjoy your breakfast & socialize a bit,
then there's an amazing speaker,
you break off into discussion groups
(smaller groups within MOPS that you're assigned to),
& sometimes there's a craft.
It's a jam packed, yet relaxing two hours without the kidlets.
Because even though you love them,
it's important to have mommy time with other moms.

We also have occasional playdates throughout the month.
Some that anyone from MOPS can go to,
& others that are just with the smaller discussion groups.

Being new to the area,
it has been a great way for me to make new friends outside of church
& get to know other wonderful ladies that I otherwise wouldn't have met.
It's nice knowing that if I'm having any parenting questions or frustrations,
these local ladies are right by my side to help me get through it.
I know that my church family will always be there for me too,
but that just means I have twice as many people to turn to when I need a break or moms night!

xoxo
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Wednesday, October 2, 2013

Potty training



Little Dudeman has been on a potty training kick lately again.
I'm hoping it's for real this time.

He was showing a lot of interest around 18 months,
but he was still in size 2 diapers at the time
& wearing 9-12 month pants.
There was no way that he would be able to wear 2T underwear.
So I ordered some 18 month training underwear from Amazon.
He was swimming in them.
They were absolutely ginormous.
We couldn't even buy pull-ups or the slip-on diapers
because they don't make them in size 2.
Lovely.
So we did what we could with regular diapers.
It didn't last long before his interest died & he wanted nothing to do with it again.
He wanted to try again right around the time Little Princess was born.
Great timing?
Not so much.
We tried, but with a newborn it just wasn't happening.
Then he lost interest and wanted nothing to do with it for a while.
And so the story goes...
That cycle happened a few more times
with each time slightly more successful than the last,
but nothing worked long-term.

In the past, we've tried:
jumping right into underwear
setting a timer every 15-20 minutes,
giving him "potty juice" (juice or CapriSun) just for trying
(to fill his bladder so that he will want to go more frequently & get more practice),
giving him 2 gummy fruit snacks every successful potty break,
sticker chart
(1 sticker for #1 & 2 stickers for #2),
potty toy
(he only gets to play with it if he stays dry between potty breaks),
potty pennies
(one penny in the piggy bank every time he successfully goes potty: 1 for #1, 2 for #2; max 10 cents per day).

Since he's excited about it again,
I'm doing everything I can to keep him motivated
but I don't want to push him so hard that he doesn't want to keep up with it.
I just found & unpacked his underwear on Monday,
so yesterday we said goodbye to the slip-on diapers yet again.
 He wore his underwear without a fuss & stayed dry all day long,
and he went potty every hour and a half-ish.
He had one messy accident.
I still consider it progress.

This time, we're just trying the underwear again.
We're also using a timer...
I first set it at 30 minutes yesterday,
then 45 minutes,
then we tried for an hour long stretch,
and finally worked up to every 90 minutes.
I'm hoping to get to 2 hours today,
unless he says or shows me that he needs to go sooner of course.

We're still putting him in slip-on diapers at night,
but he's been pretty good at staying dry as long as he goes potty right before bed.
I don't know how soon we'll be brave enough to let him wear underwear at night though,
since we still co-sleep with both of our kids right now.
His bed isn't even put together from our move yet.
So as long as he's in bed with us,
he'll probably be wearing the slip-ons at night...

Little Princess went potty in the toilet three times her first day of trying.
She was only 13 ½ months old at the time.
Now at 18 months, she is constantly pulling her diaper down
and wants to go every time Little Dudeman tries.
It's annoying, yet wonderful!
We haven't started her on underwear yet,
but we'll see how she does...

xoxo

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

31 days - 31 posts


I am terrible at posting regularly.
I tend to only post things when my thoughts are complete (for the most part)
which means that some of my posts end up quite lengthy,
& some are never posted.
I want to remedy that.
My goal is to update my blog at least 3 times a week.
People say that if you do something consistently for 30 days it becomes a habit, right?
I don't really want to feel obligated to post every day,
but if posting every day for a month will increase the likelihood of me attaining that goal,
I'm all for trying it.

I found out about this challenge because a couple of my favorite bloggers are doing it.
Over the next 31 days...
Kimmie from Sugar and Dots is blogging about her quest for the perfect life,
Rachelle from Fingerprints on the Fridge will be posting one project each day,
& although I won't be blogging about any topic inparticular,
I will be actually posting actual posts every day
instead of just a few times a month!
Or at least that's the plan...
We'll see how it goes.
Here's for day 1?

I'll be linking this post up over at The Nester where a bazillion other bloggers are attempting this challenge.
Let me know if you're trying a 31 day challenge this month so we can keep each other motivated (:
Wish me luck!
xoxo

Alright, alright...
You caught me.
I wasn't able to do it for 31 days straight.
From Day 10 on I've had a lot going on to prevent that.
I will definitely try this again sometime though!

Day 1: I'm totally counting this post.
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